I don't think most people really understand what it's like, or how scary it is to be told you're mentally ill. Guys, it fricken sucks. Before you can help someone who is depressed, you have to understand what we go through every day.
1. We loose the ability to function
we can't just get out of bed and do our school work and laugh and smile and say everything is just fine and dandy. We just can't.
2. We feel unloved
"No one cares about me" "No one want's me around" are a couple of things that went through my head every minute of every day. Who can live like that?
3. We feel hopeless
"I'll never get better" "I'll always be useless" We don't believe we're going to get better, and we don't think we can. In my head, It was over. I was going to be like this the rest of my life. I can see a light at the end of the tunnel now, and I don't hear a train (as I have so many times before).
These are just a few things I faced everyday. I was just so tired and I wanted it to be over. I'm not all better yet. as a matter of fact just a month ago I was in serious danger of being hospitalized. But I'm on my way!
What you can do to help people like me:
Love, love, love.
Before you can do anything, prove that you can love someone so broken. Smile at them everytime you see them. Not a pity grin, a real smile just to say you're happy and there's something left to be happy about. Hugs are awesome and a great way to show love. If you're romanticaly involved with the person you want to help, cuddles and kisses are the bomb.
Just show you care and you love them.
You're awesome,
Tiyler
Amen.
ReplyDeleteI got into depression when I lost my friends, and the only way I escaped was friendship. Love. I'm not sure I can say I was "clinically" depressed, but for reals. Love, love love. The Beatles knew what they were talking about.
what would you say to do if you aren't diagnosed with depression but you think you might be depressed?
ReplyDeleteTalking to your parents about it is probably the best thing you can do. Also probably the scariest thing you can do. But you have to be dauntless and just do it.
ReplyDeletethanks for the advice, hopefully I can get dauntless enough to do so.
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